THE ULTIMATE BLOWJOB TIPS YOU HAVE TO TRY
Giving a blowjob is an amazing way to pleasure your partner and show how much you care. Whether it’s part of a smorgasbord of sexual activities or the sole focus of your session, you want to ensure you’re doing it right. Even if you think you’re a pro, you might discover something to elevate your skills if you keep reading!
Build Up Tension
Few people would argue if you grabbed them by the belt and dropped to your knees. But buildup can make any sexual activity more tantalizing. To master the art of tease, you need to get your partner’s body and mind on board, and this starts far before anyone takes off their clothes. In fact, you don’t even need to be in the same room or building!
Try sexting and include a sexy photo if you feel comfortable. When your partner opens their phone to see a photo of you with your lips wrapped around a sex toy and the caption that you can’t wait to do it in person, they’ll definitely get the message. Of course, you don’t have to focus on blowjobs specifically, but who doesn’t love a giving partner?
As you depart for work, let your partner know that you’ve got sexy plans for when you’re together again that evening. You could also share some erotica (perhaps written by you) or a link to your favorite sexy movie scene to let your partner know what you’ve been thinking about.
Whether desire has been stirring all day or you spontaneously plan to kindle it, you’ll have plenty of opportunity to when you’re with your partner. For example, when you’re out and about, lean in close and ask if you can suck their cock when you get home (just be prepared for your outing to end prematurely!).
Already at home? Brush your hands over your partner’s crotch while they’re dressed. You can play it off as an accident–or not. It all depends on how direct you want to be. A gentle caress of your partner’s penis easily segues into unzipping or pulling down their pants to gain access to their cock. Or you can move between their legs to get their attention and access to their penis.
If you leave their underwear on, you can lick and move your mouth to stimulate them through the fabric, but you’ll eventually free their cock. Before you bring your mouth close to the penis, trail kisses down their “treasure trail” from their belly to just above their penis. Kiss, sick, or lick their sensitive inner thighs as your hands caress their hips.
Then, lean over their cock, perhaps letting your hair slightly graze them. A sultry “Mmm” sound ensures that you’re enticing more than one sense. You can even lightly exhale across their dick. Remember, the wider your mouth, the warmer your breath.
By this point, your partner may be begging for you to make contact. If you really want to tease them, consider binding their hands, so they have no choice but to take it! You can tie them together behind your partner’s back or connect them to something else to prevent them from pushing your head down.
Speaking of bondage, placing a blindfold on your partner at any point during the teasing process can be incredibly effective. With their sense of sight blocked, they’ll have to rely on their other senses, which can heighten anticipation as you take your time.
Make First Contact 
Try a quick kiss to continue the teasing. When you’re done making your partner wait, use your tongue. Start with a lick along the underside of the shaft from base to tip before you take the head into your mouth and gently suck on it. The head of the penis is usually the most sensitive part, and the frenulum, specifically on the underside of the head (where the ridge comes together), is especially sensitive.
Is your partner uncut with their foreskin? Although you can suck a cock over the foreskin, it usually doesn’t do much for the lucky recipient of your blowjob. Softly pull back the foreskin for better access to the head of their cock. However, let it return to its natural position occasionally to prevent them from becoming oversensitive!
There’s plenty to do with your tongue, including tapping, flicking, and swirling. You can keep it flat, use the pointed tip, or curl it. The tongue is a powerful muscle, after all! Running your tongue under the edge of the foreskin will also blow your partner’s mind.
Avoid Discomfort
Many people dislike feeling teeth on their penises, but some don’t. If your partner isn’t a fan, wrap your lips around your teeth to prevent unwanted contact.
Blow It
You might think that “blowjob” isn’t a literal term but think again. When your partner’s cock is wet with your spit, gently blow across the surface with your lips tight, which will feel cool. Cooling lubes, some of which are flavored, create similar sensations.
Suck It
Seal your lips around your partner’s shaft or use your tongue to create suction, especially as you pull your head back.
Use Your Hand
Chances are, you already use your hands when giving a blowjob, even if you’re not aware of it. Placing your hand at the base of your partner’s penis offers stability. You can also stroke the shaft while you focus on the head of the penis with your mouth, which might be all you can do if your partner is particularly well endowed (or your mouth is smaller). And if your jaw becomes sore, concentrate on stroking while taking a breather to give it a rest.
Hands are also important if your partner is intact. You can slide it the foreskin back and forth across the head of their penis, which feels great. Of course, using your mouth to move their foreskin back and forth is even hotter! Another idea: pull your partner’s foreskin back with your hand as you pull your cock off their mouth.
Make Eye Contact
Yes, it can be a little over-the-top in porn, but making eye contact while giving a blowjob is a timeless and powerful move. It shows your confidence and signals that you’re enjoying yourself. You don’t have to lock eyes the entire time, either. Simply look up occasionally. And if you happen to catch your partner with eyes closed and a rapturous look on your face, you’ll know you’re doing a good job.
Include the Balls
The balls are plenty sensitive when you give them attention. Massage them while you give oral attention to the penis. Remember, the testicles sit inside the scrotum, which you can stretch. The balls move a bit, and your partner might enjoy a little tug. But being too rough with the balls can cause injury.
When it comes to using your mouth, lick or gently suck the skin of the sack into your mouth. Some people like it when you softly graze their scrotum with your teeth or gently nibble, but you definitely want to talk with your partner about this before you do it just in case they’re not willing.
Try a Vibrator
Yes, you could use a vibe on yourself while going down on your partner, which would be pretty hot. But you can also use one on your partner. Try holding it against the balls, shaft or head. Can you fit a toy and cock in your mouth at the same time? If not, hold the toy against your cheek when your partner’s dick is in your mouth. They even make tongue vibrators to use when you blow someone.
Finish It
Once your partner is close (their breathing and body language are cues), know whether you’ll spit or swallow. Spitting can actually leave cum in your mouth for longer, while swallowing gets rid of it quickly. But you get to decide what you want to do.
Remain consistent or increase the intensity, depending on your partner’s needs. You can hold your mouth over their cock as they finish or pull away. Having a towel or tissue on hand makes spitting easier. Keep a glass of water to rinse your mouth or a trash can to toss the condom.
The tips above will help you give a stellar blowjob. Just make sure to pay attention to your partner’s response as not everyone likes the same things sexually (and your partner might not always want the same thing out of a blowjob). This will help.
